Hey Friends,

Have you ever been excited to use a new toy/device and as soon as you place it on you. Your heart starts to race, legs start to shake and you climax in under 60 sec. Your body feels all tingly and you're ready for a nap. Satisfied with the orgasm but thrown’ off by how fast is came? I know the feeling and get the question often:

Is it common to orgasm quickly when using a toy? 

Simply put yes, our bodies get excited by the bold new sensation and before you know it fireworks.  

For some this is exciting and the O they experience is incredible but more commonly I chat with women who are concerned and frustrated because they desire a longer playtime. 

When you go from using your 🙌🏽 that take you on a ride for at least a few minutes to this magical device that leaves you shivering in seconds. Your body will need time to adjust. For the women who desire the gradual build up and dont like idea of overstimulation or numbness… I recommend two things 

☝🏾Use the vibration indirectly until you’re ready.

✌🏾Allow your body to warm up before you just stick device on/in your parts. 

We have thousands of nerve endings down there in addition the thousands in the big C ☺️. (nerve ending = tells mind when to feel sensation) Stimulate all of them because placing the toy directly on the big C will almost always cause a quick reaction. If you want more time take your time before you place it directly there move the vibration around down there and to other spots on your body that feels good to you. 

In times where the vibration is too much create space/buffer/medium between the body and device. 

This can be you 

🩲putting on underwear: the cloth will spread the vibration and reduce direct contact.  

🧣wrapping the device in something textured: the texture will add to the experience and dial down the strength of the vibe. You can wrap it to be thick like a pillow and unwrap to suit your mood

👋🏽 placing the device in your hand and allowing the vibration to pass through your fingers. This will allow your body as a whole to become comfortable and still control the amount of direct stimulation you get

The goal is space so you feel as much of the vibration you desire too. 

Above all you have to give your body time to adjust in the moment and overtime when using toys/devices. They are powerful and direct, which is awesome, when you can handle it. Foreplay is always on the table wether it's solo or partnered play it helps to build momentum in the direction you’re going. 

I hope this helps if you’ve been asking yourself why am I orgasming so quickly with my toys/devices or if you’ve gotten frustrated because you’re tapped out before you start. Send me a message if you have a specific question on the topic! I'm here to help!